MSA- STB September 1989
THE HANDICAPPED BROTHER
by
Kenneth H. Sternkopf
Most Worshipful Brother Kenneth Sternkopf has set a shining
example of how a Brother can overcome adversity and serve our
Craft in an outstanding manner. We thank him for sharing his
thoughts on how we can reach out to our physically handicapped
Brethren .
God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot
change, courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom
to know the difference.
These words have long been a challenge to me for I spend my
days confined to a wheelchair, unable to walk, a situation that I
have come to accept. During 1987-88, it was my privilege to have
served the grand jurisdiction of New Jersey as its Grand Master.
Probably the only Grand Master to have served his term of office
in a wheelchair.
Although being unable to walk makes me different from those
who have gone before, I, like them, am a plain Master Mason. I
have tried to play down the fact that I am different, for like
others, I have goals that I have set in my life and in this
fraternity. One of these goals I attained in being able to serve
this craft as a Grand Master. So to those who see a person like
myself or someone like me, I would like to explain that we are
all ordinary Freemasons--the only difference being our
inability to stand or walk.
With these thoughts in mind, perhaps it is time for someone
like myself to address the issue as to how the members of our
fraternity view and accept those of us that project an image of
being "Handicapped". When, in fact our only handicap is not
being able to function in the same manner as our brethren.
There are in my mind two forms of being handicapped--one being
a physical handicap that many of us suffer and two a mental han-
dicap that many of our lodges and brethren seem to suffer in
their dealings with the physically handicapped.
Have you ever stopped to realize that a major portion of our
membership suffers from some form of handicap? Those that wear
glasses, hearing aids, false teeth, arch supports, and those
that take daily medication all exhibit some form of handicap. The
Grand Master that I served as a Grand Chaplain in 1971 alluded to
the fact that even being a Master Mason is a handicap for peo-
ple expect so much more from the members of our craft.
Why then is a person in a wheelchair, on crutches, or one who
uses a cane looked upon in the eyes of our fraternity as a person
needing a special dispensation to share in our brotherhood? Why
then is our aged brother or one using a cane or crutch left out
of our fraternal family because some of our lodges meet on the
second or third floor of buildings that are not barrier free and
no provisions have been made by the members or committees to
accommodate these brothers?
Because a brother is handicapped in one form or another does
not mean that his mind is affected. Loss of the ability to walk
or stand is not connected to or indicative of loss of brain
power. Why not involve physically handicapped people in the
programs and in the officer lines of our lodges? Why not initiate
volunteer programs in our lodges, in our districts, and at our
Grand Lodge level to aid those of our brethren needing physical
assistance as well as those in need of charitable assistance?
The Hospital Visitation Program of our Masonic Service
Association tends to the needs of the veterans in the many
Veteran's Hospitals across our land. Perhaps it is time that a
service program be initiated within our fraternity to tend to the
needs of those who find barriers in their way, making it
difficult for them to attend and participate in their lodge
functions.
Having accepted the fact that there are those with physical
handicaps within and without our fraternity, and that these
handicaps cannot be changed, we can then move on to adapt our
thinking and our buildings to incorporate those changes necessary
to draw into, and back into, our lodges those brethren in need of
special assistance.
Brother Franklin Delano Roosevelt governed our great land from
a wheelchair and certainly had the wisdom to recognize what could
be changed and what could not. 1, with all humility, tried to
emulate this great man by using him as a role model during my
life and during my Masonic career. I hope that as his
contribution led to changes in our country, perhaps what I have
had to contribute to this gentle craft of ours will lead to some
changes in the way we think. Especially in those who find it
easier to make personal excuses rather than involving
themselves in the strengthening of our Fraternity.
Another great man, Mr. Bernard M. Baruch, once stated, ''There
are no such things as incurables--there are only thosefor which
man has not yetfound a cure.'' Perhaps the time has arrived for
our fraternity to change its thinking and begin a search for a
cure that will aid our handicapped, both those with physical
handicaps and those brethren and lodges that suffer from mental
handicaps that prevent them from having the wisdom to recognize
that which must be accepted and that which can be changed. Cer-
tainly changes can be made to aid those unable to attend lodges
because of their particular problems, just as changes can be
made in reinteresting those of our members "Handicapped by
Apathy" to overcome their self imposed barriers.
It has often been stated that "We do not have problems in our
fraternity, but what we do have are challenges.'' Hopefully those
challenges facing our fraternity today will lead to God gran-
ting us the serenity to accept that which cannot be changed, a
large portion of courage to change those things needed to
strengthen our beloved craft, and last, but by far not the least
of these, the wisdom to recognize that there is a great dif-
ference between the two.
So hopefully, brethren, after we recognize the fact that there
do exist differences in people, be those differences physical,
mental, or other handicaps, perhaps we can get on with the job
of being Freemasons aware of, who we are, where we come from,
and what it is we purpose in belonging to this the greatest and
oldest fraternity on the face of the earth.
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